When the Holidays Are the Hardest Time: 5 Tips to Help You Manage
The holidays are a time of joy, celebration, and connection — but if the winter season makes you feel sad, overwhelmed, or melancholy, you’re not alone. The pressures of social gatherings, family dynamics, financial strain, and disrupted routines can create unique challenges, and we’re here to help.
At Boston Neurobehavioral Associates, we understand that the holidays aren’t always a time of happiness. We offer personalized therapy for depression, anxiety, and other common mental health conditions. And if you’re struggling to find comfort during the holidays, here are five practical ways to help manage your mental health and prioritize self-care.
1. Set realistic expectations
The holiday season often comes with high expectations, from creating the “perfect” experience to fulfilling traditions. Setting realistic, achievable goals and releasing yourself from perfection can help alleviate stress and make the holidays more enjoyable.
Focus on what feels manageable and let go of excessive obligations that don’t align with your mental and emotional well-being. Consider choosing a few meaningful activities that truly matter to you. This approach allows you to be fully present, making your holiday experience more enjoyable and less overwhelming.
2. Prioritize self-care
Self-care is the best gift you can give yourself this holiday season, and maintaining routines that support your mental health is especially important. Whether you’re planning to travel or stay home, do your best to keep a regular routine and prioritize quality sleep.
Incorporate small self-care practices, like going for a walk, listening to calming music, or practicing deep breathing into your daily routine. Scheduling a few minutes each day for these routines can go a long way toward managing stress and maintaining a sense of balance.
3. Focus on meaningful connections
The holidays can exacerbate feelings of loneliness, even if your schedule is busy. If large gatherings feel overwhelming, prioritize smaller, more meaningful connections with trusted friends or family members.
Reach out to loved ones who make you feel supported and heard. Consider setting up regular phone calls or video chats to check in and enjoy a sense of connection without draining your social energy.
4. Limit your exposure to triggers
Certain situations often worsen feelings of anxiety or sadness. Taking time to identify your triggers and working to limit your exposure to them during the holiday season can make it easier to manage your mood and your thoughts.
For some, this could mean limiting time on social media, where idealized holiday images can heighten feelings of inadequacy. For others, it might mean setting boundaries on difficult conversations or deciding not to attend certain events.
5. Seek professional support
No matter the season, you don’t have to navigate feelings of depression or anxiety alone. Our team at Boston Neurobehavioral Associates specializes in mental health therapy to give you a safe space to process your emotions and learn coping strategies.
We make it simple to get the care you need, with office locations in Massachusetts, Florida, Illinois, Maryland, New Jersey, and Rhode Island. We also offer telehealth services, so you can get top-quality care without leaving home.
The holiday season doesn’t have to define your mental well-being. By setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and seeking help when you need it, you can protect your peace and navigate this time with greater resilience.
Book your first appointment online or call the Boston Neurobehavioral Associates nearest you to get started today.